Open your eyes
Re: What women want
Actually it’s simple, women aren’t that needy. They get in there and just do it. Cooking and cleaning keep the mice and flies away, so the man can enjoy his hobby followed by romance.
When the wife is scrubbing the floors and feeding their 5 kids 5 minutes after childbirth with open wounds they aren’t yearning for attention, their needing help and contraception.
Instead of using her for his romantic pleasure and serving him and his friends enjoying hobbies, that look of attention is actually a cry for help so you scrub the floor, feed the kids while she enjoys her hobby. You don’t need eye glasses or god, you need to open your eyes to the real world of gender equality.